
It’s official: I’m history. Just saying that I am humbled is not enough: It is an honor of a lifetime. By the title of this column, I’m not talking about my age, but something that I’m still processing. There have been many...
Read moreIt’s official: I’m history. Just saying that I am humbled is not enough: It is an honor of a lifetime. By the title of this column, I’m not talking about my age, but something that I’m still processing. There have been many...
Read moreIt's been a month since the announcement of the latest iteration of the GOP administration’s ban on Transgender service in the U.S. military, jeopardizing up to 15,000 currently serving US troops as well as possibly preventing future Trans volunteers. What’s...
Read moreThis week I had a great honor. While we in the United States are concerned with the state of our struggle for equality, and worry each day how the Trump administration wants to dismantle the gains we’ve made, I had...
Read moreA whole bunch of us queer folk, our organizations, our allies, family, and friends fought hard for decades for the simple, basic, human right to marry. On June 26th, 2015, we thought we had finally attained that right for all...
Read moreI doubt very many of us thought 2017 would be a banner year in terms of civil rights gains in our community. I also highly doubt many of us saw coming the bizarre, chaotic, and cryptic direction of this administration...
Read moreOK, someone has to say it. We’ve survived the first year of the trump administration, but it has done damage to both the country’s reputation and our community. And if you feel that way, 2018 is your year to correct...
Read moreWhen I was young, about 11, Jewish kids didn’t acknowledge Christmas as anything other than just another day, but we appreciated that it meant something important to our Christian neighbors. The reality was, since our neighbors were Christian, it was...
Read moreApproaching the holidays, it’s not hard as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community to run afoul of non-affirming faith based ideas, groups, and people. As someone raised in a small Southern Illinois town who kept any remote thought of my gender,...
Read moreI am an openly gay man, so you might say you hate the sinner part of me but love me as a person. You also might tell me my civil rights are special rights that infringe on your beliefs. But...
Read moreMuch has been made of the lack of attention to human rights by President Trump on his recent excursion to Asia. This, by and of itself, represents the United States giving up the mantel on this subject since we first gained...
Read moreIs it not obvious by now who is controlling President Donald Trump and his anti-LGBT crusade? Vice President Mike Pence, who made a national name for himself as governor of Indiana by pushing “religious-liberty” laws to allow citizens to ignore...
Read moreI’m going to take a liberty and break one of my major rules about LGBT publishing that dictates that all coverage must be about or for the LGBT community. That rule is typically in place because we have mainstream media for...
Read moreI came of age in the 1980’s, a decade of immeasurable loss in the gay community. I watched and lived through the often painful march towards (more) equal rights in the workplace, in social services, in media and in the...
Read moreI’ve been traveling out of the country for the last couple of weeks, and with what seems to be so much disagreement in our community on a range of issues, and the ongoing doubts about where our struggle is leading,...
Read moreDonald Trump and his fake excuse and misdirected attack on the NFL players who are kneeling for social justice have some people saying it’s a sign of a leader cracking down on the First Amendment, which leads to an authoritarian...
Read moreI saw a picture today of a young gay couple standing next to an older heterosexual couple. Then, I noticed that the two men were holding up their hands to show their wedding rings and the older couple must be...
Read moreThis month, NLGJA: The Association of LGBT Journalists has its annual convention, held this year in Philadelphia. The organization and its membership may not be what you expect. For the most part, the focus is not on LGBT media, but...
Read moreA few weeks ago, at a campground in southeastern Missouri, I eavesdropped on a group of middle-aged gay men reminiscing about their criminal pasts. They told of police officers in parks, highway rest areas, and public restrooms, masquerading as gay men...
Read moreIt’s the last week of August — or what are known as the lazy, hazy last days of summer. Soon schools will open and, as many of us will recall, many teachers will ask their assembled students, “What did you...
Read moreTo the entire LGBT community: Let’s begin as a community to state the truth without putting lipstick on a pig. Personally, it sickens me when I see someone from GLAAD or HRC on television calling conversion therapy “praying the gay...
Read more